Hi. I'm new here. I love my clit, and I love to love my clit. But I have a problem. Thanks to the anti-depressants I'm on, I have a very difficult time acheiving an orgasm. I have been reading about these creams and gels claiming to make even the most unorgasmic woman cum. Have any of you ever tried them? If so, do they work? I don't mind taking the extra time when I'm alone, but I hate to make my poor hubby work that hard and long.