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Intro post + a nice link [19 Aug 2009|11:19pm]


Hey all! If you're still here that is. I noticed this community's been dead for 11 weeks.
Anyway, I've been looking for a community of clit lovers for a looooooong time. I'm a total clit-adorer (and mine definitely wants me to be) and on my planet we'd have a clit-worshiping cult. More on that later.
Here's a link I came across just now with a poem dedicated to the little bundle of joy:


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[08 Oct 2008|08:43pm]

I recently went to see a great cabaret show called 'La Petite Mort - The Orgasm' as part of the Melbourne
Fringe Festival. I've written a review which you can find at the Pleasure Activism Australia website. It was great to see such a fun yet informative show which made one think about female sexuality. Anyone else been to anything similar that they can recommend?
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Hello [02 Aug 2008|11:09am]

Just started my journal and found this community.  Great name and fun posts.  Will be in touch soon I am sure.

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Young radical feminists (35 or younger) [17 Sep 2007|11:21pm]

I'm going to compile an informal listing of radfems under 35 (born post-1970) because academia (or as Mary Daly would say: academentia) thinks or hopes us folk are going the way of the dinosaur.

So if you're a rad fem born 1970 or later, could I get a comment? Just give your username, or a nickname, or your real name. And if you know any authors, singers, activists, etc. who are radfem and under 35, could you give us their name. And maybe a little bio for both categories if you like, or a wee manifesto or whatnot.  And do you/your rad fems you list identify as 2nd or 3rd wave?

This is not meant to belittle older radfems in any wany, shape, or form. They're more than welcome to comment too, but please state you're older than 35, so i don't count you as a "young" rad fem.

Also, please post this other rad fem/feminist communities, blogs, etc. Let's get this thang going!
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masturbation survey - women only [27 Dec 2006|11:50am]

hi all,

apologies in advance for the slightly spammy quality of this message.

i'm setting about to write a book of fiction about women's lives, centred around their experiences with masturbation. because of this i'm going to need a lot of info about real women, why they masturbate, how they masturbate, etc. so, if you are a woman and you masturbate, i would really appreciate it if you would take the time to answer a few questions for me.

visit my journal to post your replies. you can post anonymously, and all comments are screened.
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[14 Jul 2006|02:55pm]

What things would you have at a Menarche Party. My roommate's daughter is likely to start her period soon and we want her to have a better intro to womanhood than we did. We want her to see it in a positive light. What would you include at this all-women's party to celebrate her coming into womanhood?
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[05 Jul 2006|11:08am]

[ mood | surprised ]

to make a long story short....

had intense, completely naked sex on an apartment complex's front lawn with my friend's older brother, whom i've wanted to bang for years. 

never saw that coming. 

my knees burn, and it feels good.

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i'm sure, a common question [21 Jun 2006|04:01pm]

[ mood | amused ]

i'm new to the community...and my question is...

how old were you when you started masturbating? I ask my friends this question, a couple have answered but most are too embarrassed to say anything, or they say," i don't remember."

i wasCollapse )

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For those in Tennessee [07 Jan 2006|08:50am]

For those in Tennessee

Chloe and I have had just about enough of California and are seriously considering moving out of state.

One of the states we are seriously considering is Tennessee… however it being dead center in the Bible belt we have some concerns that the state cannot support our lifestyle.

We enjoy going to strip clubs and getting lap dances.
… going to adult boutiques and buying interesting and fun marital aides. We are not talking about the basic white hard plastic vibrator, but really good stuff
… attending swing parties, both in private homes and at clubs. While “underground” has its interesting and exciting points we don’t want to be in constant fear that the cops are going to raid and arrest us for having consensual sex in the presence of other consenting adults.
… BDSM, and not just in our bedroom, but also at professional dungeons that host parties. And not just pretend bondage either, we have an interest in flogging, rope work and oh so much more.
… attending munches for the OPEN exchange of ideas
… renting porn and not in the seedy back room of the liquor store.

Is Tennessee right for us?

X posted like hell…
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Masturbation Quiz Survey Thing [27 Oct 2005|03:45am]
Thought this masturbation survey thinga-ma-jig might be of interest to those interested in the interest of interesting um... yeah

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I'm new here, and this is what I am about... [23 Aug 2005|06:04pm]

Hiya. My name is Tanya, and I am currently a Printmaking student at Cameron University in Lawton, Oklahoma. My art isn't very well accepted 'round these here parts, but my art professors are fine with it. I am so happy communities such as this exist, with which I can share my work and be proud of what I do.

My Vulva-esque ArtworkCollapse )
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[07 Aug 2005|06:42pm]

Hello ladies!

I'm new here, and I thought I'd post a good little note.

I just masturbated and had at least 12 orgasms, one after the other. Usually when I get myself off, I can't get wet, but I was dripping wet. It was awesome. My legs are shaking, love it.

I just wanted to post this, because it was pretty exciting, at least, for me. ;)

Anyway, yay vaginas!
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Thanx 2 U All [07 Jun 2005|12:13pm]

[ mood | Im cool ]

Okay...u all helped me out alot. Thanx. I have never been a fan of the Summers Eve douching thing either. Now that...ive never done. i dont understand hy women use that. My friend says it makes her tighter and it cleanses the condom residue but i don't believe that. How can something cleanse u if it only propels the bacteria further up your vagina. And i always thought that the vagina was the cleanest body part simply because it self-cleanses. It smells like nothing. What would u say is the reason that some girls insides smell? Promiscuity? Infection? or just plain nastiness????

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My sick sad boyfriend.... [06 Jun 2005|07:28pm]

[ mood | eat me damn it! ]

I always. i mean always give my boyfriend head. no matter what time of day or where we are at the time. whenever he sees me i just give it to him. mainly because i love doing. (it makes me feel sexy). Anyhoo...he never gives me head back. never in his life has he done it and i'd never received it. So one night i pressured him into doing it. it took me twenty minutes to get him to do it. i mean im sitting there with my legs open and everytime he put his head down he'd start laughing and just lay on my stomach. So he finally stopped fucking around and did it. he was so awful. i know id never received it but id seen it in so many pornos that i know what its supposed to feel like. his tongue was dry and tight not wet and loose like it was supposed to be. and then to top it off...he called me salty. Oh hell no! I knew he'd be eating me out that night so i washed extremely carefully. i think it was from the intercourse we'd had before he ate me out Heres the thing. He hasnt done it again since then and i continue to give free head. How do i get him to eat me out and like it? I used the feminine intimate wash by Summers Eve...is that good for when you're gonna get ate out? How can i make it taste better? Or is it just his inability to open his mind that makes him pay such close attention to the taste?

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Intro [27 Apr 2005|03:16pm]

New member here. I am a 20 year old college student. I have an outrageous libido, but I am also not used to being socially active, so it'll be a while before I be with a woman. On the positive side, I am looking forward to performing oral sex and generally pleasing my partner. Whoever she may be. basically, I'm horny and you guys talk about vulvas and things, so I'm here.
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Intro!!! [23 Apr 2005|05:14am]

[ mood | awake ]

Hi There

Just thought I'd say hi and introduce myself. I'm a 25 year old, bisexual, polyamorous, pagan, sex-positive feminist from Australia. I'm involved with a group called Pleasure Activism Australia which has been running for nearly a year now. I have been interested in human sexuality and exploring myself as a sexual being for a long time now. I've been looking for sex positive groups that cater to women and I'm happy to have found this one. Anyhoo, I'm pretty horrible at these intro thingies so I'll leave it there for now - I'm looking forward to many interesting discussions with you all soon!

Pleasure Activism Australia

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[23 Mar 2005|07:46am]

ok i just joined here and i already have a question. i have also been reading posts and giving my knowledge. :D but i'm totally stumped on this one.

i've been having sex for about 2 years now but i always have the same problem: i'm always dry. when i get excited it does like the opposite of what its supposed to do. instead of getting wet, i dry up. and i've tried using lube before but for some reason it gets sticky and gross and kinda starts to hurt after a while(i use KY Jelly). i've talked to my doctor about it and for a while he thought it was cuz of some meds i was on so he made me stop taking them....well the problem still arises. my doc says to just use lots of lubrication but as i said, sticky icky ness. the weird thing is, i have lots of discharge all the time. well not lots maybe but slightly more than normal, i always have. but yet when it comes time for sex, i'm dry as dust. can anyone help me?? sex can get very painful sometimes because of this. all comments are wlecome.

x-posted a few places.
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Female orgasms. [02 Jan 2005|11:47pm]

[ mood | blank ]

Someone told me females can orgasm from oral sex, vaginal-slash-PIV sex, or both. Can somebody explain this phenomenon, why there are those who cum from oral or vaginal only and not both? Thank you. Cross posted to others as well. Comment if you're so inclined. Oh and Happy New Year.

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[19 Dec 2004|12:29am]

[ mood | curious ]

hi i'm new! and now i'm going to post the most depressing question ever...where exactly is my clit? also, could everyone post there most succesfull masturbation techniques? thanks!

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female orgasm enhancers [24 Nov 2004|05:45pm]

Hi. I'm new here. I love my clit, and I love to love my clit. But I have a problem. Thanks to the anti-depressants I'm on, I have a very difficult time acheiving an orgasm. I have been reading about these creams and gels claiming to make even the most unorgasmic woman cum. Have any of you ever tried them? If so, do they work? I don't mind taking the extra time when I'm alone, but I hate to make my poor hubby work that hard and long.
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